What if the arguments you keep having, the jobs that slip through your fingers, and the love that never seems to stick aren't about bad luck or bad partners- but about you? Not the adult you. The eight-year-old you. The one who learned to survive by shrinking, fighting, pleasing, or disappearing. In O.W.N Your Sh!t, licensed clinician, certified neuropsychotherapist, and marriage and family therapist Dr. Renee Brooks pulls back the curtain on the invisible childhood patterns that still run your adult life. With raw honesty and clinical wisdom, she shows how those old survival strategies hijack your peace, sabotage your relationships, and convince you that dysfunction is normal. Through her personal experiences and real stories from her clients, Dr. Renee introduces the OWN Method (Observe What's happening Now)-the same process she uses in therapy to help individuals and couples break destructive emotional cycles, regulate their nervous system, and rebuild their lives from the inside out. This isn't a book about "fixing yourself." It's about finally telling the truth about what drives you, taking responsibility for your patterns, and choosing a healthier way to love, live, and show up in the world. You are not broken. You've just been letting your past run the show. The moment you own it, everything changes.